Showing posts with label madeleine. Show all posts
Showing posts with label madeleine. Show all posts

A Love Letter to Alaska

John Muir wrote of Alaska: "Going to the mountains is going home."

Every time I travel I fall in love. Movement seduces me. My wanderlust is palpable, an insatiable ache. This is true for every vagabond soul I’ve met. I’ve been wandering long enough to not confuse this love with a naive crush on travel. My love is seasoned and unconditional. I love the bad days, the tired days, the beautiful days, the productive days, the rainy days.

Yet my soul spends too much time inside concrete jungles, offices, four straight walls. I’ve been craving a wild travel experience. I want endless space and crisp air. I fantasize about virgin land unexplored by man. I need pure silence. There was no option but The Last Frontier. Naturalist John Muir said Alaska is “hopelessly beyond description.” Author Miranda Weiss writes that “people move to Alaska to find themselves, but also to get lost. [They’re] in search of some indefinable hybrid of adventure, wilderness, and what I imagined would be a simpler life. I think we all wanted to know what we would look like in front of a backdrop of wilderness, who we would become once the fancy clothes and high ambitions were stripped away.”

Miranda moved permanently to Alaska as a young, recent college graduate. I traveled briefly to Alaska as a stressed out thirty-something professional. We arrived as different people with the same goal. We wanted Alaska to strip us down without apologies. We understood that the less control we took over her refiner’s fire, the more it would change us. She forces you to realize how small you are. She forces you to admit Nature is entirely self-serving, virtually indifferent to your existence. She forces you to question how you show up in your real life, how you define yourself inside your four straight walls. Miranda writes that “doctoral degrees mean nothing when your car slips off the road, when it’s moose season, or when the northern lights strike us all dumb with awe.”

We’re still sailing away and I’m already thinking about next time. I’m thinking about boarding a train to Denali. I’m thinking about floating in the turquoise Glacier Bay. I’m thinking about a motorcycle ride from Skagway to Carcross, stopping to wade my bare feet into every lake. I’m thinking about the layers I have left to strip away. As Muir said, “I had nothing to do but look and listen and join the trees in their hymns and prayers.” I’m going home changed. Everyone who lets themselves breathe in the energy of Alaska goes home changed. That’s her gift to anyone who understands how to receive it.


Your Land, by Mike Burwell 
This is the place that is given to you
because you have found it yourself
because you stayed long enough
to move your gaze fully to the south
because you returned at times
to accept the ritual: to care
and be cared for by rock
and bush, creek, and bird.
This is the place where your faze
took hold, found words and moods
for words, where others will come
for your small sound when you are gone,
to listen for the door you left
swinging, just out of reach
on immense hinges.


It’s your turn. Just go.

Love,
gail


I hope you enjoyed your virtual vacation. You can re-live each day of the adventure through my Live Voyage Report landing page. If you're interested in following other Live Voyage Reports, visit The Avid Cruiser website to see where the team is exploring now! Join me on my next journey via Instagram and Twitter @fourthirtyam.




Grandma's memorial #throwbackthursday

I'm in Iowa right now for my Grandma Marion's memorial service. It seems only appropriate that this Throwback Thursday post share my memories of her and share the beautiful obituary written by my aunt Nyle.

Marion was smart and sassy. My memory of her telling me about the courtship with my grandpa Otto says it all:
When Otto proposed marriage... "I told him that I still wanted to teach. I liked to teach. He had two choices: Take it or leave it." Otto waited five years, courting her in the meantime, and helping her open the schoolhouse on early winter mornings to start the fire before the children came. Only when she decided she was done teaching did they get married in 1942. {read the full post here}

Jessen family farm in Iowa

Love you, grandma.
me


Who am I? #throwbackthursday

For my first Throwback Thursday post, I clicked way back into the archives and selected a post at random. The first post that pulled up was a photo meme that went around the web in the summer of 2008. It was about answering a set of standard questions by selecting a Flickr photo. Your answer was the search term and you picked a photo to represent it. Some of the questions I would answer in exactly the same way. Some I can't even remember how I answered, even when trying to job my memory with the photo. I thought it would be fun to share the 2008 photo and answer the questions again.


Left to Right, Top to Bottom.


1. What is your first name?
2008: gail.
2013: still gail.

2. What is your favorite food?
2008: I think I was going for curry?
2013: I still love Indian food.

3. What high school did you go to?
2008: Timpanogos.
2013: No way to change that.

4. What is your favorite color?
2008: Don't know what I was going for there.
2013: Turquoise.

5. Who is your celebrity crush?
2008: Maggie and Jake Gyllenhaal. Yes, both.
2013: Ditto, and so many more.

6. Favorite drink?
2008: Some sort of smoothie?
2013: Lots and lots of cold, cold water.

7. Dream vacation?
2008: Paris.
2013: Denmark.

8. Favorite dessert?
2008: Flourless chocolate molten cake with house-made gelato? Sounds like me.
2013: Salted caramel anything and/or berry pie.

9. What you want to be when you grow up?
2008: Now this is fascinating to me. I don't know the exact answer I had, but the fact that it pulled up globes shows me how late I am to this party. I've blogged A LOT recently about my shifting perceptions around success, my career, creativity, etc. I'm slowly owning the fact that I want to write and photograph and travel for real, like for a job, forever. I've always felt that way, but it took until 2013 to realize that may actually be possible sort of maybe to upgrade that from a hobby to a life.
2013: Passionate and tuned in. See above.

10. What do you love most in life?
2008: Travel.
2013: Travel.

11. One Word to describe you.
2008: Did I say balance? Peaceful? Calm? I'm not sure but I also find this fascinating. This post would've been when I was a program coordinator, pre-grad school, and traveling either for work or pleasure every couple weeks or so. Turns out that's more balanced, peaceful, and calm than the tailspin grad school left me in as an executive director who travels whenever she can but it's not nearly enough.
2013: Creative.

12. Your flickr (or other online) name.
2008: fourthirtyam.
2013: fouthirtyam, which I've had since the internet was born + my madeleines since 2007.

Love,
me



Hike down down down to Penobscot Bay #traveltuesday

Dyce Head Lighthouse | Castine, Maine

Castine, Maine is a quaint fishing village settled in 1613. I'd never heard of it before I spun the proverbial globe and asked a friend where I should take my next vacation. Her mother-in-law summers in Maine (as do many New Yorkers who use "summer" as a verb) and she gushed about the charm of Castine. She specifically recommended the Pentagoet Inn (B&B), which did not disappoint. Sight unseen, tickets were booked and off we went.


Castine is surrounded by the Penobscot River/Bay. Perched on the tip of the peninsula is the Dyce Head Lighthouse. The grounds (private residence) are beautiful, but the real gem is the footpath that leads to the water. First you walk through the rolling green yard, hike through dense woods, and finally pop out onto a steep wooden staircase leading straight into the bright blue water. Well, straight onto a rocky cliff. It's perfect for adventurous souls to climb around and explore, but when the tide comes crashing in it's not for the faint of heart. If you're up for it, it's breathtaking. {click to tweet and share the adventure}










I will never forget the sunset that night on the rocks, water crashing as the tide rose below. Only in the deserts of the Southwestern United States have I ever experienced the deep silence that also surrounded us that night on the cliff in Maine. It was one of most peaceful vacations I've ever had.

Love, 
me


This travel highlight is also featured on AFAR.com. Feel free to add it to your own wanderlist.

These photos are pinned to my wanderlust board. Re-pin and spread the love of adventure!




My Declaration: Intention



The Declaration of You book tour is in full swing. If you haven't already checked out their press page, you should definitely head over there and be inspired. There are some truly awesome people making some truly awesome declarations. Today, it's my turn to discuss...


illustration by the lovely Jessica Swift.

I'm a very intentional person, if I do say so myself. I'm a hyper organized planner, goal setter, getter, and to-do list checker (not, as it turns out, the sexiest tagline for an online dating profile*). Two of the questions the lovely authors asked the book tour bloggers: "How often do you set intentions? How often do you determine what they need to be?" Following my Type-A logic thus far, I set all sorts of intentions all day long. I set intentions here, here, over here, over there, right here, not to mention the mountains of intention at work, and even my pet projects turn into part-time jobs because I take myself too damn seriously. I regularly and frequently determine what my intentions need to be and update accordingly. Then I re-color code it all, edit my hit list, and get back to work. This manner of intention has manifested an amazing career at a young age, incredible opportunities in my field with national consulting and speaking gigs, publications, home ownership, globetrotting, a graduate degree, on and on.

But guess what? And this has been an ironic lesson a long time in the making for me:  All of that intention...wasn't actually very intentional. I never associated all of my actions with the law of attraction. I was young and arrogant enough to assume that I was simply creating all of these opportunities and successes for myself. To a degree, that's true. To a greater degree, I was putting energy into the universe...and the universe was manifesting back to me exactly what I was asking for. The irony is that I didn't entirely realize and intend and decide upon and own what I was asking for. I didn't intend to ask for 60-hour work weeks. I didn't intend to ask for a sub-par romantic life because I couldn't be bothered with all those distractions. I didn't intend to ask for the airport shuttle driver to know me by name and be the friend I see most often. I didn't intend to ask for an administrative position that lacks the creativity I felt in previous roles. I was simply going going going fast on the path that young professionals "should" travel. The growing pains I'm experiencing now are due to the fact that I want to set new and different intentions for my life. Those new and different intentions are not (yet) familiar or comfortable for me. I'm figuring out how to build this plane while flying it.

As for my paradigm-shifting declaration of intention, two things have been washing over me like a giant tidal wave as of late:

Have enough trust in The Universe to set the intentions you really truly want to set. {tweet it}

These are the intentions that scare me. These are the intentions that I rarely share out loud. These are the intentions that I really truly want to set. These are the intentions into which I need to pour a whole lot of love and trust: I want to make photographs and write and travel. For a living. For real. Forever. I want to move to Denmark. I want to dabble in graphic design. I want to wake up next to a tall dark bearded feminist who wants in his life a smart and sassy partner to grow old with. I want to paint and be good at it and have people buy my paintings because they think they're pretty. I do not want to continue grinding out my days in committee meetings where we discuss the formation of committees.

Be more intentional with your intentions. Then get out of the way. {tweet it} 

I've finally, and with hesitant gratitude, hit a wall. I've left myself no choice but to give up on the idea that I'm somehow in total control of manifesting all these new intentions (an idea driven subconsciously by fear and ego, if you want the truth). I'm not in total control. I will never discount the value of doing my research and working hard, but I'm also settling into a new paradigm. I'm settling into a paradigm that finally, finally, finally realizes I need to get over myself and get out of my own way. I've believed in the take action part of intention my whole life, but I've never been good at believing The Universe will fill in the gaps. I've never been good at trusting that when I hand it over, it will eventually come back to me ten fold, or come back to me at all. I can understand the law of attraction intellectually. I know it spiritually. I've seen it happen to other people again and again. And yet letting all that fabulousness flow unobstructed through my own life scares the shit out of me. What if The Universe is on holiday and my intention memo bounces back with her out of office message? What if The Universe is busy with the far more interesting intentions of far more fabulous people all over the world? What if I've pissed off the universe by ignoring her offer to help me all these years? What if I actually get everything I want?

You know what Jen Sincero would say to all that nonsense? After she told me I'm a badass, then she would say:

Set your intention, work steadily in the direction you want to go, do all that you know how to do, believe it’s here and available to you, be diligent about how you speak, think and behave, have faith in yourself and The Universe, and then...drum roll please, this is the super important part...breathe, let it go, fuggetaboutit, give it some damn room to come in. 

Oh wait, she did say exactly that in a blog post earlier this week.

Dear Gail,  
Get out of my way. I got this.  
Love,
The Universe



The Fine Print: The Declaration of You will be published by North Light Craft Books this summer, giving readers the permission they’ve craved to step passionately into their lives, to discover how they and their gifts are unique, and to uncover what they are meant to do! 

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* No, I have never used anything like that in an online dating profile. You're welcome, Men Of The Internet. You're welcome.

I was young | The Blog Dare Day 14

{PROMPT} I was young...

...in this photo. Happy Father's Day, J-man. I love you.

Happy Father's Day, J-man. I love you.


...and he was young in this one. 




There's a time for everything | The Blog Dare Day 6

{PROMPT} That's why we stopped hanging out with them.

I scribbled "BFF" and "TLA" and "stay rad never ever change" and dotted my i's with hearts in as many yearbooks as the next girl, but I'm actually glad to say I've given up on all that. The singular idea of a one and only best friend for life being the "that" to which I'm referring.

I think it's beautiful that we have friendships that ebb and flow. I think it's beautiful that people come in and out of our lives at different times and for different reasons. I believe that speaks more to the strength of friendships than anything. When people are in our lives at specific times to teach us (and for us to teach them) particular lessons and to help each other grow in particular ways, it's important that we honor that moment in time. That specific moment. That specific time. We may not be friends with that person six years or six days from now, but we can learn and love and be with each other now. So let's all do that.

That's all.

TLA Love,
me


This post is part of The Blog Dare series.



All true stories | The Blog Dare Day 3

{PROMPT} I lived...

In an attic apartment with a roof so short and slanted my boyfriend had to sit to pee and he hit his head on the ceiling fan no less than 83 times.

In an apartment with a mysterious hole in the linen closet that eventually started spewing baby rats.

In a house in Mission Viejo, California with a gorgeous pool in the backyard and a neighbor who frequently watched Top Gun at full volume with their front door open.

In an four-plex built over an old pioneer / sister wife graveyard. 

In a co-ed freshman dorm with a douche named Trigger, a lech who offered to pay me in meal points for sex, and a roommate with a Japan-shaped birthmark on her cheek whose last words to me were, "Enjoy your sad, weird life."

In an apartment with one parking spot for five roommates. Do the math. Get home first. 

In a duplex with a roommate who attempted suicide in my bedroom. 

In Yakima, Washington, but I don't remember it. 

In a picturesque 1901 cottage with a circular red front door. 

In a second-story apartment that had stairs so narrow we moved in through a door on a fire escape patio thing that opened to the backyard. 

In a house in Orem, Utah at the tippy top of a cul-de-sac where we played foursquare in the street until the wee hours of warm summer nights. 

In a condo with walls painted to match my wanderlust: Grand Canal, Gold Coast, and Bordeaux Rouge.

In an on-campus apartment suite with a cutter roommate who did nothing but play Sims online and chase diet pills with vodka. 

In an apartment with a slum landlord who let the leak in my bathroom get so bad my toilet fell through the floor. He kept my cleaning deposit when I left two days later.

Home Sweet Home. Right here...right now.

My hood.
downtown Salt Lake City, Utah.

Love,
me


This post is part of The Blog Dare series



Photo Series: Portland & Oregon's Coast

Tiny cutenessLittle Free Libraries are all over the hoods in Portland. @downtownslc how great would these be in SLC?!#succulentlovesalted caramel and almond brittle @saltandstraw. omg.seasonal ice cream flavors at @saltandstraw@saltandstraw in PDX's artsy Alberta hood.
shiny sparkles...ooooohVintage. Costume. Jewelry. I dedicated this shopping adventure to @psychopetals.that happened.poached eggs atop risotto cakes made with bacon, asparagus, and mushrooms...plus sweet potatoes. That.brunch light(s)Good Morning, Brunch.
Hiking #whpthroughthetreesdriftwood. very large driftwood.I wonder how Steve and Lisa are doing?silence.#whpthroughthetreesRoad trip gold. Thanks, creepy truck stop. #thathappened w @pdxblueeyes
Have a beautiful day. Love, The Ocean.All of that hiking about in the woods deserves a reward. And a factory tour. Cheese. Yes.hiking to the beachthe perfect lunch*obligatory* Canon Beach, Haystack Rock, Oregon.one-woman show about the weird awesomeness that is Portland. That happened. And it was hilarious.
Portland + coast (04-2013), a set on Flickr.
I was in Portland last week for work, but that never stops me from spending every spare moment I have in search of beauty and beautiful food. I spent the weekend at the coast with my friend who lives in Portland. It's moody and raw and stunning.

I still have over a hundred photos on my phone that I'll play with for days to come, but for now...enjoy!

Guest Post: Crafting a DIY Community



Hello Readers, 

How are you? I have exciting news to share with you. You've ready my individual blog posts about various Craft Lake City workshops, but they recently invited me to do a guest post for their blog...sort of a meta post about my experience with the whole series. First of all, I was totally flattered and happy to do it. Beyond that, it was a great reflective exercise for me to summarize the energy of the workshops and try and explain why I love them so much. 

An excerpt: 
There was something electric, almost subversive, in the act of gathering around a tablewith complete strangers and creating something unique, together. I say “subversive” because the paradox of our hyper connected culture is that we aren’t really connecting with each other at all. With a flick of my finger on an iPhone screen I’m connected to Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Flickr, Pinterest, Tumblr, Yelp, Blogger, LinkedIn, Gmail, etc. etc. ad nauseum. I run this exact cycle of connectivity every day, multiple times a day, but when was the last time I started a conversation with a complete stranger?

In a collaborative effort to drive traffic to each other's sites, click the link below to read the full post. 

Crafting a DIY Community


Love, 
me



Bohemian glass as far as the eye can see

I posted a travel highlight to AFAR's website about the Glasmuseum in Passau, Germany. I'm also sharing it below.

So delicate and lovely. 


I sailed into Passau on the Danube river and woke up that morning to see a postcard perfect Bavarian city. Passau is a small town on a peninsula, surrounded by three rivers (Danube, Inn, Ilz), and completely walkable. I had just one day to spend there. The plan was to shop the Christkindlmarkt (Christmas market), attend an organ concert in St. Stephen's Cathedral, and wander residential neighborhoods (one of my favorite things to do when I travel). Even after accomplishing all of that, my friend and I stumbled into the Glasmuseum on a whim.

We thought we'd maybe kill an hour and see a few tea sets. We had no idea what we were getting into. Well over four hours later, we were still going case by case and room by room, taking hundreds of photos and marveling at how little we apparently knew about the art of glass. The woman at the reception desk told us there are over 30,000 pieces in total, but they only have room to display 13,00 at a time. The collection on display covers 200 years of history (Baroque, Empire, Biedermeier, Classicism, Historicism, Art Nouveau, Art Deco, and Modernism…thanks for the era reminder, Wiki). We rode an elevator to the top of the Hotel Wilder Mann and worked our way down all four floors and through nearly 30 different rooms. It's gorgeous and esoteric and one of the best surprises of my two weeks abroad. Whether you spend four hours or forty minutes, go.



Nearly 30 rooms over four floors!


The jar on the right nearly jumped into my purse. Oopsie...

Lose Your Way in Paris

Saint-Michel station

AFAR is hands down my favorite travel resource. It's combines the best aspects of a web 2.0 crowdsourcing model, and it manages to feels like you're having dinner with thousands of your most well-traveled fabulous friends. The concept of the site is for globetrotters post short travel highlights and then clusters of highlights are grouped into wanderlists. You can star and save other people's highlights and/or lists, or you can post your own.

I recently posted a highlight about Paris, based on my third time there this past December. I'm sharing the highlight below. Have you been to the city of lights? What's your favorite memory?

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Just get lost. There's no better way to experience all that is Paris. Wear comfortable walking shoes (the only un-Parisian element of this intentionally-vague itinerary) and spend hours making your way in and out of the metro, up and down from street to train, under and over the Seine and back again. There's a romance and a freedom to it. Do not over think it.

I recently flew through Paris on my way home from a vacation. When booking my flight I debated if I'd be up for one more city. In the end, adventure won. It always wins. I booked the longest layover I could (19 hours), and rode the RER-B train into the Saint-Michel metro station in the Latin Quarter. I dropped my bag at the hotel and wasted no time getting lost.

The magic of Paris is in the details. You can only feel Paris as you walk right through her. You smell the sweet boulangeries, you see every flourish of Beaux Arts, you hear one of the sexiest languages to ever touch the human tongue rolling and rolling among friends at cafes. The magic is tangible. Paris is a sensory feast and to share that moment in time with the locals you have to ditch the maps.

My favorite memory of Paris is leaving Notre Dame on the evening of Christmas Day, walking aimlessly in the opposite direction of my hotel, and stumbling onto a trio of jazz musicians. The moon was full, the river flowed quietly beneath us, the air was crisp, and people danced joyfully with complete strangers.

That's the magic of getting lost in Paris.


Memories of Marion


generations of women
powerful 
brave
waves of immigrants
voices in her hands
calloused hold the love
of stories rich lines tough skin
the american dream pulses
in her veins


Marion Janet Arthur Jessen, 01 December 1918 - 20 December 2012.

November 2007 was the last time I saw my grandma (dad's mom). When I was in Europe in December I got an email from my dad telling me she passed away, shortly after turning 94, and 12 years after her husband Otto died at age 95 in 2000. I remembered a blog post I wrote five years ago reflecting on what I now realize was the last time I'd see her.

Then, as with now, standout memories for me include her stature. She was tiny at just over 5"3', but tough as nails and physically one of the strongest women I know. She was hyper pragmatic and rational, a savvy business woman, nonprofit Executive Director, a feminist before her time, a hostess and party organizer extraordinaire, and everything was straightforward with her. No fuss, just get it done. She was also incredibly sharp, intelligent with a dry humor. She cracked herself up the last time I saw her, at age 89, telling me this story: "One time a group of Missourians came down to Iowa to work on the farm and help bale hay. One of the women found out she was pregnant. She didn't even realize it. She must be a sound sleeper."

During that same visit, my then sister-in-law commented on my grandma's wedding ring, so Marion asked to see her ring. When they held their hands together, my grandma's face scrunched up and she looked around the room accusingly. "Hey," she persisted indignantly, "your ring is bigger than mine."

At my request she then told us my favorite story, the story of her courtship with my grandpa Otto. She was 19 years old, teaching grades K-8 in a one-room school house for $60 a month, when grandpa started coming around. At that time, she explained, female school teachers had to be single-not-married. When Otto proposed marriage... "I told him that I still wanted to teach. I liked to teach. He had two choices: Take it or leave it." Otto waited five years, courting her in the meantime, and helping her open the schoolhouse on early winter mornings to start the fire before the children came. Only when she decided she was done teaching did they get married in 1942.

Everyone in the family shares a memory of her infamous backseat narrations. To get anywhere in Iowa you drive for miles and miles and miles. She would take it upon herself to tell us who lived where, who was married to whom, what business existed, churches, schools, bus routes, anything. It wasn't just contemporary facts either, she would narrate 50 years of history about any particular place in the split second it took us to drive past it. When I was a teenager I didn't appreciate this gift. In the few times I saw her after college, I tried to make up the time I lost to being young and obnoxious, but I couldn't. This remains a signifiant regret for me. Particularly now as I'm delving into researching family history, I would give almost anything to have even just a few hours to talk to her. 

Most of all I remember her hands. They're iconic to me. They're rough and arthritic and beautiful. The poem above is something I wrote while visiting her in 2007. I took the photo of her hands at that same time. I knew it's what I wanted to remember about her. A black and white print of that photo hangs in my living room where I see it every day. 


My aunt Nyle wrote her obituary, posted in the Waterloo Cedar Falls Courier on 23 December 2012


Marion Janet Jessen was born December 1, 1918 in Aberdeen, South Dakota the daughter of Wilhelmina (Minnie) and Ray Arthur. The family moved to Waterloo, Iowa in 1919. She graduated from East High School in 1937. She attended Iowa State Teachers College in Cedar Falls, Iowa for 6 months. From September 1937 to May 1942, she taught in rural one room schools in Black Hawk County.   
On July 12, 1942 she was united in marriage to Otto Jessen in Waterloo, Iowa. Together they owned a dairy farm and operated a retail dairy route with Otto’s brothers. In 1951 they bought a farm on Hammond Avenue in Orange Township. From 1941-1955 she volunteered for the Red Cross, Parents Teachers, and the American Red Cross. In 1955, she helped establish the American Cancer Society in Black Hawk County and became its executive director. On July 1, 1962 she bought her own business, Personal Gifts Company, a wholesale mail order business selling paper party supplies to retailers across the United States. In 1965, she bought a card and party shop in downtown Waterloo which was named The Paper Tree. In 1970, she leased a card and gift shop at the Crossroads Mall in Waterloo. She closed both stores in 1974 and operated the gift shop from the same location as Personal Gifts Company at 3306 Midway Drive, Waterloo.   
She was a member of the South Waterloo- Brethern Church, American Historical Society of Germans from Russia, and the Danish Brotherhood. She was the family historian for many years and visited German-Russian relatives in Germany to study her family geneology. She volunteered at a daycare center where she loved rocking the babies. Her joys were having family get-togethers, taking trips, and helping others. She will always be remembered as a loving mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother.   
Survivors include sons, Tom (Nyle) of Iowa City, Jerry (Karin) of Orem, Utah and daughter, Lynet Lorenz (Randy) of Waterloo, 7 grandchildren: Kristine Hallaway (Steve) of Edina, Minnesota, Dawn Pawluk (Michael) of Arlington, Virginia, Gail Jessen of Salt Lake City, Utah, Ryan Jessen of New Orleans, Matthew Jessen (Heather White) of Waterloo, Patrick Berry of Waterloo and Derrick Berry (Jodi) of Guatamala City, Guatamala and 4 great-grandchildren. Also surviving are brothers Gene (Pat) Arthur of Waterloo, Dr. Jim Arthur (Shirley) of Villa Park ,California, Dick Arthur (Charlotte) of Foresthill, California, sister-in-law Helen Arthur of Tucson, Arizona and nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by her parents, husband Otto, and brother Ralph.  
A memorial service will be held at a later time. Marion will be deeply missed by her family.